Decline with regret
Mom,
I am not going to my childhood friend’s wedding this weekend. I am honored that she invited me, but I haven’t seen her in at least 6 years, and I feel uncomfortable going to her wedding, and not knowing anyone there. (Yes, I know you and dad will be there. But still.)
I am still coming to town, but I would rather hang out with my sister. Or my brothers. Or my grandparents. Or my aunt. I rarely see them, and they’re family.
I’m sorry I’ve disappointed you,
Kim
P.S. And it’s not like she came to mine!
Editor’s Note: I just had to let that out. I’ve been telling my mom I’m not going to this wedding for quite some time, but I guess she was confused and still thought I was going. Nope! It’s not a big deal, but I feel bad that my mom really wants me to go and I don’t want to go.