Detached
A friend of mine called me last night. We haven’t spoken since the beginning of September, but we picked up the conversation as if yesterday was the last time we spoke.
She was in my wedding. I consider her one of my closest friends. She is a trustworthy, reliable, level-headed person… and a blast of fun! So, why why why have we not spoken in three months? We have email correspondence, but it’s not the same.
I HATE that my busy lifestyle keeps me out of touch with my friends and family. I really felt like I was doing well by keeping in touch by email, but after a phone call, or a LIVE visit, you feel a little sad when you remember what you are missing.
I love the companionship of my husband, but I sometimes miss the variety and mindlessness of chatting with other people I am close with.
I suppose I should keep that in mind this holiday season; to make the most of my time.
I miss you, friend.
(Oh, I almost forgot! Check out my guest post at Hilly’s site today!)
Themocracy
I know exactly what you mean! I have a couple friends that I’ve told them before, “You know, you’re one of those people that I truly forget just how much I love you and how much I enjoy hanging out with you until we find ourselves hanging out again!” HA!
You’re right, email correspondence really isn’t the same.
I’ve gotten terrible about “live” communication with my friends. I’m pretty good with emails, but almost never call anyone on the phone (except Juli). One of my friends actually said the best way to contact me is by commenting on my blog! How sad is that?
Kimberly – Is this just another one of the bonuses of being an “adult”? Never seeing your friends?! I suppose it doesn’t help that mine don’t live in the same state 😉
SJ – I have a friend who only leaves comments on the blog. She won’t even email me. Hello?! I check my email too! 😉
that looks like a lot of fun; and the dresses — beautiful!