Maggie‘s post yesterday stirred up some thoughts about blog privacy that have been whirling around in my head. Maggie mentioned that she has cut back on posting, and has been feeling more like keeping some things to herself than sharing with total strangers or people who only know her from her blog.
Lately, I have been thinking about how I forget who reads my blog. In my mind, I am writing to the commenters – because that is who I interact with. But a lot of people read and don’t comment. Family, other bloggers, people I work out with, complete strangers… what impression does my blog leave of my real life persona, to them? And do I care?
It seems… somewhat naive to post in this way. To write without a large portion of your audience in mind.
But, that is my style. I am very open. I write when I am inspired. I put it out there with little editing. I sometimes ask people to proof read my posts, but lately, I act, then think.
I hope I don’t offend too many. Hee hee.
So, as you can see, I typically start to think about the privacy thing, then tell myself, “Well, you feel good with what you write. And you still have secrets that you keep to yourself, so it’s not like it’s all out there.” And there are a lot of things that happen that I don’t record here – this isn’t a diary.
It’s funny though, because I am protective/private of certain information, around certain people, in real life. It’s those relationships where there is no point in sharing – the person will only use the information against you, or (even worse?) not acknowledge it at all.*
Anyway. I am pretty open online, and plan to remain so, even though I don’t know who is reading this. And I appreciate Maggie’s point of view on it, and the conversations we have had about the topic as well.***
Do you ever stop and think about who is reading your blog, before you hit publish? Do you think a lot of people read and don’t comment?
Ha. I always miss delurker day – when you ask people who usually don’t comment, to say hi!
I feel like this post could begin to discuss social media and privacy and what you share (names, pictures, locations, etc.), but, ugh. Me lazy.
Darn, since no photo, here is the cake I made for Maggie yesterday, for her birthday. Gee. Maybe the birthday girl should have been in the photo?!
*This makes me sound really negative and paranoid. I’m not (?). I am just talking about forced relationships (that we all have!), mostly, where you are polite and give each other details of your life, and I have just learned with certain people, giving more information opens up the doors for unwanted judgement. It’s kind of a personality thing in the other person.**
**It could never be me, right? Ha ha.
***Hmm, I must have written about this before, because we talked about this over the winter.